
COMMUNITY VOICES
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When Rio first moved to the neighboring town of Berlin and got a job at the school district, they felt welcome — at least at first. That changed quickly the day they heard a varsity football game for the Berlin Indians being announced over the intercom. “It felt like a slap in the face,” Rio recalls. “The Mascoutin Tribe of Berlin was wiped out by colonists in the early 1800s. I learned that from reading an old Berlin Journal newspaper. Berlin High School didn’t even have a mascot until the 20th century. Any story claiming the Mascoutins gave their blessing for the school to be called the ‘Berlin Indians’ is just that — a story.”
Rio asks us to think critically about these narratives, especially given the long history of unjust negotiations between the U.S. government and Native tribes. “Those of us with Native ancestry carry the truth in our very DNA. The threats made against our people were real. The message was clear: ‘Everything belongs to us now. Do what we say or die.” What happened next is something Rio will never forget. Using their 30-minute meal break on a Friday night, they stood alone in front of the Berlin community, holding a sign that read: "We are people, not mascots."
“I chanted that phrase as people walked by me, and I was repeatedly told to ‘shut up’ because they were trying to watch the football game,” Rio shares. “That was the moment I saw just how much racial equality means nothing to some in our community.” The backlash wasn’t just verbal. Students jeered. Adults shot angry, dismissive glares. Some uttered words Rio says they wouldn't dare repeat on school grounds. “It was hatred. Plain and simple. Just for saying that Native Americans deserve respect.”
Rio’s protest brought to light an uncomfortable truth: while white students proudly call themselves “Indians” in the context of school spirit, many don’t extend that same respect to real Native people standing in front of them. “That contrast said everything. And it told me — and everyone in attendance — that this school district has a problem,” said Rio. Rio knows they are not the first person to speak out about the mascot issue. And they’re sure they won’t be the last. “If I give up, someone else will take my place. Because when something is wrong, people eventually find it in themselves to make it right,” she shared.
Rio closed with a powerful quote from Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.: “We shall overcome, because the arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice.” Rio's story is a reminder to us all to start where we are, use what we have, and remember that standing up for justice is always the right thing to do— even when you may stand alone.
one brave soul
the Lunch Thief
At lunch, a girl from another class came over and took my Oreos. I hadn’t offered them, and I told her I didn’t want her to take them. She looked at me, said, “What are Oreos?” and walked away like it didn’t matter. I felt surprised and a little upset, and I knew I wanted to talk to my mom about it.
When I got home, we sat down and I told her what happened. As we talked more, I also told her something else I’d noticed over the past few weeks—how the same boy in my class would have his Pringles taken by that same girl. He never seemed okay with it, but he never said anything. I hadn’t said anything either. I had watched it happen day after day without stepping in. But now, when it happened to me, I realized how wrong it was.
My mom told me she was proud of me for speaking up. She wrote an email to my teacher to share what I had told her. The next day, my teacher talked to everyone involved. She reminded us what kindness and respect look like. She helped the boy feel supported and encouraged him to say what he needed. She talked to the girl who took the chips and reminded her that taking without asking isn’t okay. Then, she turned to me and said something that I’ll always remember: “You didn’t just stand up for yourself today—you stood up for someone else too.”
That made me feel proud. I told the boy I was sorry for not saying something sooner. I wish I had. At the end of the day, no one took anyone’s food at lunch.
When I got home, my mom and I talked about the bigger meaning of what happened. She asked if I wanted to hear the lesson, and I did. We talked about how sometimes we see things happening to others—things we know aren’t right—but we stay quiet because it’s not happening to us. But if we wait until it affects us to speak up, we might be missing our chance to make things better for someone else. Now I understand that when we use our voice—especially to stand up for someone who hasn’t found theirs yet—we make the world a kinder place.
Penny L she/they 12 yrs old
voices from oshkosh pride
“Oshkosh Pride started out in 2018 as a small free cookout for the local LGBTQ community,” said Kora Novy (she/they), the Executive Coordinator at OKP. Since then, the event has grown, landing at the Leach Amphitheater by 2023. “From the start, Oshkosh Pride was a space for the LGBTQ+ to gather safely and celebrate our existence,” Kora added. After volunteering in 2023, she lead the effort to establish Oshkosh Pride as an official nonprofit.
TeaJay Hobbs (they/them), the Oshkosh Pride Advocacy Coordinator, shared: “We created Oshkosh Pride, Inc. because our community needed safe third spaces, LGBTQIA2S+ representation, and increased access to resources to help improve mental health.” Today the organization has grown beyond a yearly Pride Event to include advocacy, monthly community check-ins, and fostering community partnerships and connection. “As a trans non-binary kid who didn’t see any representation until my mid-twenties,” TeaJay shared, “I know how hard it is to grow up in a small town without support. Just one supportive person can change everything.”
Kora and TeaJay’s shared vision? “Improving the mental health outcomes and building community for LGBTQIA2S+ folks at all of their intersections,” said TeaJay. Looking ahead, Kora hopes to “deconstruct shame around expressions of gender and sexuality and help make Pride louder across this state.” Both leaders agree: Oshkosh Pride is growing because of community effort, teamwork, and a deep commitment to inclusion.
paws up for creativity
I've been coming to Oshkosh Pride for a few years consistently now, and every single year it's an absolute delight! I always bring my fursuit to express joy for the furry fandom. It's so nice to feel accepted there and to see others have a safe space to express themselves.
Growing up, I was always a very artistic person. I discovered the furry fandom through small events and it really helped me grow as a person. Wearing my fursuit to Oshkosh Pride is always a delightful experience. I have had people come up to me who recognized me from previous years. It's really heartwarming to know that my community recognizes me and I'm remembered and valid.
I think it's very important people encourage each other to be creative, especially in times of unknown outcomes.
Let’s continue to build our community up!
- Mongrel Skullsworth
@mongrelskullsworth on Instagram